Our attitude and angle when coming to a small group meeting may need to be adjusted. Instead of coming to receive supply we should come as  a channel of supply to the others our group. In addition, our small groups should take place in mutuality, where each one may participate. One specific way to facilitate an atmosphere of mutuality is to ask questions. These questions will allow everyone at  various stages of human life to be engaged in the fellowship, with the goal that each one will have a personal enlightenment from God through His word. This will spontaneously issue in an increasing love for His word.